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Created by summersummer, 741 days ago, 1142 views

Do you find some people around you are more sociable than others? How to make ourselves become more acceptable?
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SoftGuitar739 days ago

I think... if you do a lot of reading you become informed on a LOT of topics and interesting to talk to.
Do reading on variety of topics. Then you become the center of attention when you can bring up a plethora of topics.
It is all so very easy....

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Yuri741 days ago

To do this, you need to respect yourself and others to respect.

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Walphai741 days ago

Quite simply,make people interested in spending time with you, there is a lot of ways you can do that, you can be funny, or charismatic etc it is up to you and your imagination :D

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brendaniel741 days ago

@summersummer
Here are some things you could possibly try:

Start conversations with new people

If you've recently been introduced to someone, or you see some new people around, go up to them and start a conversation. Even saying hi, asking for their name, and going, "Cool, nice meeting you. I'll see you around later hopefully" can be good.

Chat back to people who try to talk to you

Have you ever tried making pleasant conversation with someone you've run into, and they blew you off by giving one-word responses and obviously looking like they don't want to be spoken to? You probably walked away thinking they were pretty unfriendly, even if you intellectually knew they may have had a reason for being brusque. If someone is trying to chat with you, make an effort to give them something back in return.

Take time to talk to people you already know

If you see someone you know, then go over and find out what's going on with them. Keep in touch with your friends. Stop and chat to your co-workers when they're not too busy. Maintain your relationships and show you're interested in the other people. If you see someone you know, don't avoid them because you don't feel like talking, or pretend not to notice them because you're worried the conversation will be stilted. Go up to them and chit-chat for a few minutes.

Invite people to do things with you/the group

Be fairly loose and generous with your invitations to people. Be the one to invite people out rather than waiting for them to come to you first. Don't feel you have to know someone for a long time either. If you seem to get along then why not ask them to do something? If you like your new co-worker or classmate, ask them if they want to grab a drink later, or come by your place to chill. If you run into a friend downtown, and neither of you is doing anything, ask if they want to grab a bite to eat, or if one of you is busy, suggest you get together later some time.

If everyone at work is going out on Friday evening then ask anyone who may not know about it if they want to come along as well. If you're meeting some friends later that night, ask your new acquaintance if they want to join you. If you run into a classmate on the street for five seconds, tell her that you're going to be a Dan's place later if she wants to drop by. Of course, when you throw invitations out like this, they won't always be accepted, but that's alright.

Make an effort to bring new people into the fold and make them feel included

If you're out with your longtime friends and there's a new person there, take the time to talk to them a bit, rather than being more aloof and expecting them to make the effort of getting to know you. At the end of the night mention, for example, that everyone is seeing a certain concert in the next two weeks if they want to come. If there's a new person at work, fill them in on the general goings on of the office, and let them know everyone in your department usually grabs lunch together at 12:30. Mention that you and three other people usually play football on Thursday evenings if they want to join in.

Go to where the people are

If you're at work and everyone is going out for lunch then go as well. If they all eat lunch at a certain time and place, then eat lunch then too. If you're at a party and everyone is talking on the front porch, go join them. If you're at a bar and everyone is hanging around on the couches downstairs, then you may as well be there too. Show you want to spend time with the people you came with. And once you're there, join in whatever they're doing. Don't hang back and focus on something else.

Spend more time with people

Spend time with people more often. Spend longer periods of time with them. Spend time with more of them. If when you normally see your friends, you leave after a few hours, try spending half the day with them. If you only see your friends once a week, try seeing them more often, if they're willing and not too busy. If you usually keep to yourself at work, and only talk to people on break, try spending time with your co-workers a little more during the workday. If you only see some acquaintances of yours under specific circumstances (e.g., in particular class, at a club), then try to see them outside of that situation.

If this piece of advice seems like something you'd like to try, but you quickly get drained in social situations, and worry you wouldn't last long, then you may want to look at this article:

When You Easily Get Drained And Tired In Social Situations

Make nice little gestures towards other people

Bring food or drinks to a party when it wasn't expected that you do so. Perform basic courtesies like holding doors for people. Buy someone a drink or a shot if you're out at a bar. However, less is more. If you're overly "nice" and giving you can be taken for granted, taken advantage of, or come across as if you're trying too hard to please everyone and make them like you. It also puts other people in an awkward situation because they feel uncomfortable taking so many free handouts.

Offer compliments to people

Don't be afraid to be positive and encouraging. If someone is good at something then tell them so. If someone looks nice, or is well dressed, then say you think so. If you think someone is funny, or an interesting person, then let them know. Again, moderation is essential. The occasional genuine compliment is way better than a constant stream of try-hard ones.

Make sure everyone is having a good time when you're out

Without overdoing it and being a pest, put some energy into making sure everyone is having fun when you're out in a group. If someone seems left out of the conversation, try to maneuver it to a topic they can contribute to. Or if someone seems like they want to say something, but they can't get a word into a lively discussion, casually indicate to everyone that they want to talk. If you're all doing an activity that someone doesn't seem comfortable with, try to coax them to join in (if it's harmless and you know they'll have fun once they start), or take some time to explain the basics if they aren't familiar with how to do it. Or maybe help form an alternative side activity.

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Aravi741 days ago

Hi @summersummer

People become more socially acceptable when they follow and take part more thing that are accepted by your society. So follow more thing that are accepted by your society. Try to take part in the cultural events and social party/events of your society.

Regards,

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biaka741 days ago

всё просто , довериться миру и осознать себя , как частичка всего мира , обладающая правом на своё мировоззрение и мировосприятие , драгоценная и индивидуальная часть этого мира

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tjiebudi741 days ago

just be yourself.

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summersummer740 days ago

@Walphai

to be funny seems more difficult for the introvert.

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summersummer740 days ago

@tjiebudi

Of course I would like to be myself, but I am afraid that my personality can't be acceptable.

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GRAFF739 days ago

С такой жизнью...перед собой самим собой и то не всегда бываешь...

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aliasadullah739 days ago

@summersummer
Be Honest in the life with everyone

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nandi738 days ago

be a polite person

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TonyW50736 days ago

I have told several people who have social issues to do this, go to a mall and sit at the bench and watch people. Realize how different and unique each person is, and understand each has their own hopes and dreams and downfalls. Then utilize The Universal Law Of Attraction, it's a proven and absolute truth that has been passed down in secret for thousands of years and kept by the elite (this is how they made billions). Don't wish, or hope, to be more socially acceptable. Hold the thought that you are popular and fun to be around as real in your mind and keep it that way. Very soon you will notice changes. I did this with something else, after reading the book The Secret which now anyone can utilize. Within a week of picturing having wealth and a business to be able to buy a house in the country and have financial freedom (I live on disability due to Parkinson Disease) I won 140 bucks on a Publisher Clearing House game, I started a new Ebay business and have already sold 400 bucks of stuff, and have a 2 year plan to build a business so lucrative and easy and fun to do that every friend and family member that I explained it to has agreed to be a part of it. I realize it in my mind as if it's already happening. It really is that easy.

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ashishwadekar87736 days ago

@summersummer
yes

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