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Why is it hard to say "NO"? Reward $2
Created by kimi, 589 days ago, 1400 views
Do you find that it is really difficult to say "No" in some conditions, and how to get through that?
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√ Best Answer 1 TailsNigower588 days ago To keep it simple, because no one likes to disappoint, just as no one likes to be disappointed.
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2 brendaniel589 days ago @kimi
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3 pustoi11589 days ago it does not difficult. the only thing you need to do is to think primarily about their own interests. as the person asks you to do something that you do not need to think about their own interests. ask the person to respond to your service, to do what is beneficial to you. and if he refuses, then why should you have to agree? This means that it is waiting for you that will never make myself to you. if you agree that you will not find yourself a loser. Many people do not understand, and it is necessary, gently, to show how it is not convenient to accept
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4 drmittilo589 days ago I think: that all the relationships that are outside of marriage, in the sin of fornication, God does not allow such unions. If the couple want to be together, you have to marry, if one does not want to is that not to greater responsibilities.
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5 MrDeng589 days ago Just think the bad consequence that you wouldn't meet,then you will be easier to say no.
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6 igor589 days ago Our consciousness, our soul counts on consent, on the answer "Yes". All of us wait for consent. "No" always heats human relations even if you refuse for the objective reasons and even if you are right, inside naturally there is a discomfort. Why to cause discomfort, to feel guilty that in vain refused, it is better to agree.
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7 Aravi589 days ago Hi @kimi
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8 jdfromtn588 days ago @kimi The basic need most people have is to be liked and accepted by everyone they meet. Saying "no" is just not in character for them because they feel an overwhelming fear that the person(s) they are saying "no" to won't like them any more. To overcome the fear of saying "no" you must learn to prioritize. Is it more important to please others or to please yourself? This may sound "self"-ish but it is essential to developing and maintaining a healthy self-image.
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9 nuklin588 days ago Cultivate the habit of saying "please give me some time to think about it first" Second, you should understand that you are being kind to satisfy your conscience, not basically for your kindness to be reciprocated so you have the right to say No especially when you are being taken for granted. Being likeable is not about being generous but being diligent in all your ways so don't buy attention with your resources but with your kind attitude of respect for all. A good advice is worth more than millions of dollars; try giving advice instead of resources and see the difference. Good luck!
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10 zrodfects588 days ago Two words is the only answer "Being considerate" people tend to say no because they want to be the better person that helped for whatever reason and to also not disappoint the person who asked.... it is also just us people being human, being human is one of the hardest things to explain because we do things naturally, learning from mistakes, trying to be nice to others, at times failing or doing the wrong thing, again all boils down to being human, some people are shy some are not this too builds on confidants.
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11 kimi588 days ago @pustoi11
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12 kimi588 days ago @igor
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13 kimi588 days ago @TailsNigower
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14 pustoi11588 days ago My English is poor. therefore I try to explain briefly with a simple example. I exaggerate, you will be asked to vote for Clinton, but you want for Trump. you say that you agree, but only if they vote for Trump. it turns out that you, like, have agreed. I hope you understand the logic. this scheme can be applied to nearly any occasion.
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15 kimi588 days ago @pustoi11
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16 jeetkml587 days ago NO, NO, NO, IT'S SO EASY, but when you feel difficult say No, that mean you are caring about his/her feeling.
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17 maren587 days ago It's only depends from your character. Strong character don't care about meaning
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18 h_rodriguez771586 days ago @kimi
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19 pustoi11586 days ago @kimi
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20 cosgood1969585 days ago One of the reasons why it is so hard to say no is that we as human beings are wired from birth to do what others say and ask. It takes two weeks to form a habit, so one can imagine how hard it will be for a person who has been working there entire lives to please others first before looking at themselves and core needs.
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21 vickyph84583 days ago because your not use to saying it even to your love ones its even harder.
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22 capybara582 days ago To Brendaniel:
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